Im 14 he's 22.. i need some serious help?

Age differences are purely relative, and become less and less meaningful as we get older. If you were to be 25 and marry a guy who was 33 nobody would think anything of it. But at your age the greatest danger is to any guy who is over 18 and then only if the two of you have sex together. Definitely a no-no, and a crime. That said, there's nothing "wrong" with a texting relationship, or any other kind of relationship (that doesn't get physical). As for how far your feelings go,that's really up to you. No matter what your intentions may be, sometimes you will find yourself falling for a guy that you might prefer not to. Best approach that I can recommend is to learn to accept yourself as you are, warts and all, and without judgment. Know that you will always do the best you can. But also know that you do not need anybody to make yourself whole. You are perfect just as you are. Learn to accept yourself and if you can truly do that, you can learn to accept anybody. And if you fall for someone, but maintain your self confidence, you will survive anything. Have a great life.